There is a mistaken belief that to be modern is to use the language or words that border on ‘slang’. Words like ‘sure’, OK, tinkle and the like are all right once in a while, but too much and repetitive use of these weave a weird pattern about the culture and personality of the person concerned. Through the word “Hello” may be used in social gatherings etc., a better substitute is ‘good evening ’ or even simply ‘evening’ while the word ‘Hai’ may be reserved for only close friends.
Peculiarities:
Etiquette refers to normal behavior which is acceptable and agreeable. A man of etiquette and manners will have control over his behavior and actions. This means that he will check his impulses, his peculiarities, his idiosyncrasies, and his unnatural behavior, if any. Some people would like to draw attention, create a sort of sensation by doing things or cultivating tastes which are out-of- the-way.
In the realm of etiquette such peculiarities have no place. In a group where everybody is enjoying tea or coffee, if you announce that you do not take such beverages the effect produced will be unsocial. It would be embarrassing for the host as well as for the guests who are going to sip from their cups.
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