Saturday, February 20, 2010

Husband and Wife:

The core of the family round the husband and the wife when young, along and just starting life, many an adjustment, was made, many a misunderstanding resolved, cemented and forgotten. This was the time when faith and interdependence were developed, when individuality was forgotten and a joint life was launched.
As new members, that is, the children arrived in the family, the requirements of the family took a different turn, but the husband-wife relationship was strengthened into the intimacy of oneness, one hope, one ideal, one goal. In short through this husband-wife oneness the turn family-union is built up, where the love and affection between the parents, are reflected in the attitude and emotion of the children toward their parents.
It might be wrong to suppose that the agreeability between the husband and the wife is the ultimate end. The husband and the wife through their education and judgment maintain agreeability, but that may sometimes degenerate to artificiality which is the bane of any married life. Normalcy and the highest glow of happiness, the act of keeping one happy and pass on this happiness to one’s partner, are the measures to be adopted. In this way, both husband and wife will find that agreeability comes to them naturally in whatever they do or think separately.

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